MY PERSONAL DEFINITIONS

Spanking/C.P. - Top/Bottom or Switch = Both parties mutually respect the other, each can stop play at any time they wish, there is no need of a safeword as a Top should be aware of the bottom in front of them.  Both have equal control. Adult Role-play is normally involved in this type of play i.e. adult schoolie/HM, Uncle/niece, Aunty/nephew but not always as you can gain a lot from a session where both parties enjoy the fun element, it is where your head's at that counts. 

BDSM - Dom/Domme, Submissive or Switch = Both parties mutually respect one another, there is a great amount of trust due to the restrictions in the scene, parties involved should have met prior and discussed how they want the session to go. A  Safe word should be applied to all play. Submissive still has a modicum of control in that they have only handed over a margin of control and can stop play with use of their safe word at any time.  Dom/Dommes have the same right, they take the control but are always aware of the submissive, their safety and needs. Leather, rubber, latex, PVC, part nudity etc; play an important role in this scene as does the need for a submissive to be collared by her Dom/Domme. This type of play should be entered into with caution, especially with someone you have never met before, I would suggest you exchange Emails first then arrange to meet somewhere public as you may not get on and the would mean a disasterous encounter. I do not offer this type of service within my 1-2-1 bookings.

S/M - Master/Mistress and Slave = Slave has given over total control to their Master/Mistress, for them to do as they please within a safe, sane environment, determined by both parties upon entering into such an agreement.  Both have submitted to this type of relationship and are committed to acting out an SM scenes they feel work for them at the time. Again this should not be entered into lightly, you need to think about what will be required of you and most of all talk to your owner.  I do not offer this type of service within my 1-2-1 bookings.
ALL This type of play should be entered into with an open mind ensuring you feel safe, know that you can trust the other person to use implements safely and most of all know when to stop. If you don't feel safe or any element of mistrust then simply DON'T be coherced into play!

Vanilla - is what people into the scene call others who are not or the way you dress i.e vanilla = normal everyday clothes.
*Weekend/evening/bank holiday/full day appointments are subject to prior booking, must be within the given hours stated and a supplementary payment for out of my normal hours.
**Where a deposit is requested be it for 1-2-1 sessions, events, trips or day events this is non-refundable and must be paid at least 7 days prior to confirm.